Quoting Aurorin2:

My male friends know me well enough to know that I am not criticizing men in this entry, but rather the content of their online profiles. As a matter of habit, I check the list of my "compatible matches" daily. I read every profile of the gentlemen with attractive headlines. And, if by chance, I come across a suspicious profile, one that may belong to a scammer, I do contact IM to protect all of us ladies from the scourge of online dating. For some time now, I have been commenting to my friends about the headlines that some men use to attract our attention.  Second only to those who cannot think of anything to write besides a greeting, the least appealing headlines to me are those that refer to women as some form of roylaty, a sugary treat, or the absolute worst: the sexual/social experiment. Now, if the intention was to simply attract the attention of the women checking out profiles, these men have accomplished their goal.  But,  surely, they realize how trite and cliché these types of headlines are. I read some awesome profile tips this week that echo my sentiments, so I feel vindicated when I criticize the lack of originality and the tastelessness of these headlines.
It is rather funny to me that more than half of the writers of these horrible headlines list they are seeking an LTR when the first impression any woman could have of these guys is that they either have blue blood, some powerful sweet tooth or perhaps, a porn addiction.  (Porn addiction because surely these men with fetsihes are objectififying women and have no realistic view of them.)
Does anyone really consider herself a "queen" or a "princess"?  I suppose there are some women out there who do, so a better question would be is anyone convinced of a man's good intentions when he says he will treat "you like a queen"?  Last I saw, the women of the royalty were trophies, pretty much sexless beings (at least as far as their husbands were concerned).  It might be more fun to be treated like the pirnce's lover.  I know that the idea is that he would shower you with gifts and treat you well, but wouldn't you expect any man to treat you well, even if he didn't call you his "queen"?
I don't know which personally is more offensive to me, someone referring to me as anything you can eat or wanting to use me as an experiment or his way to be initiated into the world of interracial relationships. (Yes, I am writing about you and you know who are.) In grad school, I had a professor who did some innocent flirting with me for a while.  His initial approach was to let me know that his first wife was a Black woman (I'm embarrassed for us both, BC). Another student and I joked about my being this professor's "chocolate fantasy" now that he had married a White woman. it was a joke then, and sadly it still makes me laugh. I don't understand how otherwise kind and intelligent men can say such ridiculous things in pursuit of a woman. I lost count of how many profiles mention that the authors are seeking "brown sugar" or "chocolate"  because there were so many of them.  Some of us have chatted about this, so I know I am not the only one who finds the choice of words of these authors questionable.   I sought similarly clichéd comments written about other women, and I can count on one hand how many times I found a profile that referred to women of any other ethnicity in such a way. So, why treat Black women this way? It is difficult to find websites devoted to interracial dating or dedicated to WM-BF dating without running into dozens of links for porn.
A cada oveja su pareja, as they say, so just as I am annoyed by those profiles, there are several women out there who find them charming.  But, could anyone of any ethnicity, who is seeking an LTR, truly find the possibility of being someone's social experiment appealing? Many years ago when I was in Southern Spain, I used to stay out dancing until they closed down the clubs (7-8am). I was pretty popular just about every weekend just because of the "chocolate fantasies" of some men. Few were honest enough to say so, but every once in a while, a stranger would approach me in the street requesting a kiss or that I would go home with him because he wanted to know what it was like to "experience a Black woman".  Those "curious" ones tended to have some crazy ideas about Black women. Surely, they found someone else who was interested in re-educating them.
So, a couple of friends and I thought of some similar types of headlines that women could post with their profiles as they seek men. Most of them are pretty salty and blue, so to try to post them here would subject me to censorship. Here are a few of the silliest ones:
SBF 4 venti Chai Latte
Seeking a Baron of bountiful booty
kiwi+chocolate= gr8 snack

My male friends know me well enough to know that I am not criticizing men in this entry, but rather the content of their online profiles. As a matter of habit, I check the list of my "compatible matches" daily. I read every profile of the gentlemen with attractive headlines. And, if by chance, I come across a suspicious profile, one that may belong to a scammer, I do contact IM to protect all of us ladies from the scourge of online dating. For some time now, I have been commenting to my friends about the headlines that some men use to attract our attention.  Second only to those who cannot think of anything to write besides a greeting, the least appealing headlines to me are those that refer to women as some form of roylaty, a sugary treat, or the absolute worst: the sexual/social experiment. Now, if the intention was to simply attract the attention of the women checking out profiles, these men have accomplished their goal.  But,  surely, they realize how trite and cliché these types of headlines are. I read some awesome profile tips this week that echo my sentiments, so I feel vindicated when I criticize the lack of originality and the tastelessness of these headlines.
It is rather funny to me that more than half of the writers of these horrible headlines list they are seeking an LTR when the first impression any woman could have of these guys is that they either have blue blood, some powerful sweet tooth or perhaps, a porn addiction.  (Porn addiction because surely these men with fetsihes are objectififying women and have no realistic view of them.)
Does anyone really consider herself a "queen" or a "princess"?  I suppose there are some women out there who do, so a better question would be is anyone convinced of a man's good intentions when he says he will treat "you like a queen"?  Last I saw, the women of the royalty were trophies, pretty much sexless beings (at least as far as their husbands were concerned).  It might be more fun to be treated like the pirnce's lover.  I know that the idea is that he would shower you with gifts and treat you well, but wouldn't you expect any man to treat you well, even if he didn't call you his "queen"?
I don't know which personally is more offensive to me, someone referring to me as anything you can eat or wanting to use me as an experiment or his way to be initiated into the world of interracial relationships. (Yes, I am writing about you and you know who are.) In grad school, I had a professor who did some innocent flirting with me for a while.  His initial approach was to let me know that his first wife was a Black woman (I'm embarrassed for us both, BC). Another student and I joked about my being this professor's "chocolate fantasy" now that he had married a White woman. it was a joke then, and sadly it still makes me laugh. I don't understand how otherwise kind and intelligent men can say such ridiculous things in pursuit of a woman. I lost count of how many profiles mention that the authors are seeking "brown sugar" or "chocolate"  because there were so many of them.  Some of us have chatted about this, so I know I am not the only one who finds the choice of words of these authors questionable.   I sought similarly clichéd comments written about other women, and I can count on one hand how many times I found a profile that referred to women of any other ethnicity in such a way. So, why treat Black women this way? It is difficult to find websites devoted to interracial dating or dedicated to WM-BF dating without running into dozens of links for porn.
A cada oveja su pareja, as they say, so just as I am annoyed by those profiles, there are several women out there who find them charming.  But, could anyone of any ethnicity, who is seeking an LTR, truly find the possibility of being someone's social experiment appealing? Many years ago when I was in Southern Spain, I used to stay out dancing until they closed down the clubs (7-8am). I was pretty popular just about every weekend just because of the "chocolate fantasies" of some men. Few were honest enough to say so, but every once in a while, a stranger would approach me in the street requesting a kiss or that I would go home with him because he wanted to know what it was like to "experience a Black woman".  Those "curious" ones tended to have some crazy ideas about Black women. Surely, they found someone else who was interested in re-educating them.
So, a couple of friends and I thought of some similar types of headlines that women could post with their profiles as they seek men. Most of them are pretty salty and blue, so to try to post them here would subject me to censorship. Here are a few of the silliest ones:
SBF 4 venti Chai Latte
Seeking a Baron of bountiful booty
kiwi+chocolate= gr8 snack